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The 22 best sex toys for couples to use together: mutual orgasms start here

Guarantee orgasms all-round with our pick of the best sex toys for sharing

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Planning a sexy weekend away with a new lover or hoping to reignite the passion in your relationship? One surefire way to get the sparks flying in the bedroom is the addition of a well-chosen couple’s sex toy (or three) that you can use together.

But if you usually indulge in solo masturbatory fun or broaching the subject of sex toys with a new beau is scary as hell, purchasing a box of dildos to present to your other half on a Friday night might be a bit overwhelming.

So, before we get started let's get one thing straight: sex toys are seriously good fun, chances are your friends and colleagues all own one, and they drastically increase your chances of reaching orgasm. If that's not enough to convince you to invest in your sex life, read on.

The best sex toys for couples

Here are the best sex toys for couples at a glance. Keep scrolling for the full list...

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    Bejewelled red silicone heart butt plug

    BEST BUTT PLUG SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

    Bondara Bejewelled red silicone heart butt plug

    £13 at bondara.co.uk
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    Tiani

    BEST WEARABLE SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

    Lelo Tiani

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    Rampant Rabbit Vibrating Cock Ring

    BEST RABBIT COCK RING SEX KIT FOR COUPLES

    Ann Summers Rampant Rabbit Vibrating Cock Ring

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    We-Vibe Sync 2

    BEST HANDS-FREE VIBRATOR SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

    We-Vibe We-Vibe Sync 2

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    Tor 2 Vibrating Cock Ring

    BEST VIBRATING COCK RING SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

    Lelo Tor 2 Vibrating Cock Ring

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The benefits of sex toys for couples

A shared orgasm is arguably one of the greatest joys of sex, and yet surprisingly few heterosexual couples manage to hit the high notes together every time they have sex. In a 2016 study, only 46% of women reported nearly or always reaching orgasm when they got it on, compared to over 90% of men.

There are a number of proven benefits to enjoying a simultaneous orgasm – for one thing you can share in that glorious sex afterglow at the same time, promoting bonding and intimacy. Studies have also shown that this sexual 'glow' can last for up to 48-hours after you get jiggy, and the stronger the bond the better the connection in the long-term, so investing in couple's sex toys that you can use together is actually good for your relationship!

22 best sex toys for couples to shop now

So how do we close the orgasm gap and start dishing out an equal share of sexual pleasure? From love eggs to vibrating cock rings, keep scrolling for the lowdown on the ultimate couple's sex toys to up your come-quota and improve your relationship in the process... Just don't forget the lube.

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BEST BUTT PLUG SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Bondara Bejewelled red silicone heart butt plug

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Bejewelled red silicone heart butt plug
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BEST BUTT PLUG SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Bondara Bejewelled red silicone heart butt plug

£13 at bondara.co.uk

What's the best way to show your lover that you really care and you're also kinky AF while you're at it? Pop a heart shaped butt plug up your bum and bend over baby. Available in different sizes depending on the depth of your love, this smooth, red silicone probe is guaranteed to inject some romance into your evening. And it's on sale today.

What's included: Silicone butt plug available in 2.5, 3 or 3.5 inches.

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BEST WEARABLE SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Lelo Tiani

Tiani
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BEST WEARABLE SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Lelo Tiani

This premium device from our fave Swedish sex tech brand Lelo receives great reviews for a reason. Designed to be worn internally during penetrative sex, it has two motors to stimulate you both during playtime, delivering shared orgasms all round. We love this sex toy!

What's included: Wearable vibe, wireless remote control, USB charging cable, satin storage pouch and lint-free cleaning cloth.

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BEST RABBIT COCK RING SEX KIT FOR COUPLES

Ann Summers Rampant Rabbit Vibrating Cock Ring

Rampant Rabbit Vibrating Cock Ring
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BEST RABBIT COCK RING SEX KIT FOR COUPLES

Ann Summers Rampant Rabbit Vibrating Cock Ring

Hands up if you're madly in love with your Rampant Rabbit vibrator? If your relationship with your fave sex toy runs so deep that your partner is starting to feel left out, we have good news. Now you can turn your real life penis-haver into a human rabbit with this clever little cock ring. Simply slip it onto his shlong, switch it on and let the well-placed bunny ears buzz you to ecstasy.

What's included: Silicone vibrating cock ring and USB charging cable.

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BEST HANDS-FREE VIBRATOR SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

We-Vibe We-Vibe Sync 2

We-Vibe Sync 2
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BEST HANDS-FREE VIBRATOR SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

We-Vibe We-Vibe Sync 2

For hands free stimulation, simply slip this 10-speed remote controlled vibrator into your vagina during sex, sit back and enjoy the vibrations. Designed to be used alone or with a partner, it's slim enough to accommodate a penis (or insertable sex toy) at the same time, so if you require clit stimulation to orgasm this ticks all the boxes. What's more the whole thing is waterproof, so you can use it in the tub.

What's included: Couples vibrator, magnetic USB charging cable and remote control.

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BEST VIBRATING COCK RING SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Lelo Tor 2 Vibrating Cock Ring

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Tor 2 Vibrating Cock Ring
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BEST VIBRATING COCK RING SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Lelo Tor 2 Vibrating Cock Ring

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Two words will convince you to invest in this brilliant sex toy: clitoral stimulation. That's right folks, while penises are great, they don't always hit the sweet spot during penetrative sex, so slide on this vibrating cock ring for just the right amount of clitoral pressure and prepare to come, hard.

What's included: Silicone vibrating cock ring and USB charging cable.

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BEST CLITORAL SUCTION SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Lovehoney Rose Toy Clitoral Suction Stimulator

Rose Toy Clitoral Suction Stimulator
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BEST CLITORAL SUCTION SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Lovehoney Rose Toy Clitoral Suction Stimulator

This rose shaped clitoral suction stimulator isn't strictly speaking designed with couples in mind. But once you let this powerful little bud loose on your clit you won't give a rat's arse about your other half anyway, as you'll be too busy writhing around in bliss. Treat yourself babe, you deserve it.

What's included: Rose shaped clitoral suction stimulator and USB charging cable.

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BEST FINGER VIBE SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Dame Products Fin Finger Vibrator

Fin Finger Vibrator
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BEST FINGER VIBE SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Dame Products Fin Finger Vibrator

If you're looking for something discreet to add to your sex sessions without taking over the show, this clever little gadget from new US brand Dame is the one. Officially the first sex toy ever allowed on Kickstarter, it's a small, versatile and discreet vibrator that's worn between your fingers for extra stimulation. One of the simplest sex toys on the market, simply hold it between your digits (with or without the tether for added security and control) for use during foreplay, sex or masturbation. Just add lube.

What's included: Silicone vibrator, tether and USB charging cable.

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BEST WEEKEND SEX KIT FOR COUPLES

Tracey Cox Supersex Couple's Kit

Supersex Couple's Kit
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BEST WEEKEND SEX KIT FOR COUPLES

Tracey Cox Supersex Couple's Kit

Now 50% Off

This three piece kit from veteran sex expert Tracey Cox is a great introduction to couple's sex toys for beginners, so you'd be wise to sneak one into your luggage for a weekend away. It comes with a vibrating cock ring complete with rabbit ears to stimulate your clit, a remote control egg for orgasms on the move, and a vibrator so you can finish the job if your partner is exhausted from all the fun. Expect multiple orgasms aplenty.

What's included: Vibrating cock ring, remote control egg and rabbit ears vibrator.

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BEST COUPLES SEX TOY KIT

Lovehoney Wild Weekend Mega Couple's Sex Toy Kit

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Wild Weekend Mega Couple's Sex Toy Kit
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BEST COUPLES SEX TOY KIT

Lovehoney Wild Weekend Mega Couple's Sex Toy Kit

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If you're new to sex toys and not sure where to start or you're booked in for a marathon sex session and fancy trying out all the toys at once, Lovehoney's bumper 11-piece sex toy selection will tick all your boxes. Experiment with a mixture of cock rings, vibrators, jiggle balls and anal beads until you find the shoe that fits.

What's included: G-spot vibrator, butt plug, rabbit vibrator, male stroker, anal beads, jiggle balls and a cock ring set.

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BEST SEX TOY GAME FOR COUPLES

Lovehoney Position of the Week Dice

Position of the Week Dice
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BEST SEX TOY GAME FOR COUPLES

Lovehoney Position of the Week Dice

Now 10% Off

Who said sex toys have to be penis-centric? If you're nervous about introducing bedroom gadgets to your partner, start slow with a sex game – like this saucy dice set. Each one comes with a different possibility: the white dice gives you a position to try, the blue suggests a room in the house, while the pink adds an extra touch of kink to the scenario. This game is designed with heterosexual couples in mind, but most positions can be enjoyed in any sexual scenario.

What's included: Three six-sided dice, with over 200 sexual outcomes to discover.

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BEST PREMIUM SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Coco De Mer Pleasure No1 - The Seed

Pleasure No1 - The Seed
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BEST PREMIUM SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Coco De Mer Pleasure No1 - The Seed

This clever clitoral stimulator from luxury brand Coco De Mer has been designed to target your most sensitive parts with precision focus and just the right amount of pressure. It comes with two motors encased in cushioned silicone for extra comfort, plus 10 different vibration settings so you can mix it up. Use it alone or with a partner and prepare for a night of pleasure in abundance.

What's included: One clitoral vibe plus rechargeable batteries.

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BEST APP CONTROLLED SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Lovense Lush 2 App Controlled Love Egg

Lush 2 App Controlled Love Egg
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BEST APP CONTROLLED SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Lovense Lush 2 App Controlled Love Egg

For the tech-savvy kinksters amongst you who enjoy a bit of power-play, this clever sex toy can be controlled remotely. Simply insert your love egg during the day, download the app and let your other half start the Bluetooth fun and games. With almost five hours of play per charge and multiple speeds to choose from, you will be on your knees by lunchtime.

What's included: 8 inch rechargeable silicone love egg and USB charging cable.

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BEST MINI VIBE SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Smile Makers The Surfer

The Surfer
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BEST MINI VIBE SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Smile Makers The Surfer

If you'd prefer to keep things simple but you're after slightly more power than simple fingers can achieve, this external vibrator from Swedish sex tech entrepreneurs Smile Makers can be used to gently massage your clitoris during partnered sex. You could also ask your lover to use it on you during foreplay, while receiving oral or penetrative sex.

What's included: 100% waterproof and phthalate free vibrator. Batteries not included.

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BEST MUSIC ACTIVATED COCK RING FOR COUPLES

Lovehoney Juno Music-Activated Vibrating Love Ring

Juno Music-Activated Vibrating Love Ring
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BEST MUSIC ACTIVATED COCK RING FOR COUPLES

Lovehoney Juno Music-Activated Vibrating Love Ring

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If you struggle to reach orgasm during penetrative sex, this vibrating cock ring will hit the jackpot. The stretchy, vibrating sheath is designed to keep him harder for longer, while the removable bullet directly stimulates your clit, upping your orgasm count considerably. And to really get the party started, it synchronises with music, so you can ride your lover to the rhythm of your favourite song. Sexual Healing never sounded so good. Don't forget the lube.

What's included: Stretchy cock ring, removable bullet vibe, remote control and USB charging cable.

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BEST APP CONTROLLED SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Lelo Tiani Harmony

Tiani Harmony
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BEST APP CONTROLLED SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Lelo Tiani Harmony

We've included multiple sex toys for couples from Lelo in our edit for a reason. The brand knows a thing or two about creating cutting edge sex tech that works, and this clever device that's designed for sharing will not disappoint. Thanks to two separate motors it will stimulate both you and your partner during internal sexual encounters. And best of all you can set the pace using the Bluetooth controlled app. The future of pleasure has arrived and we are here for it.

What's included: Wearable vibe, USB charging cable, satin storage pouch and lint-free cleaning cloth.

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BEST WAND MASSAGER SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Ricky Ultimate Wand Massager Vibrator

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Ultimate Wand Massager Vibrator
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BEST WAND MASSAGER SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Ricky Ultimate Wand Massager Vibrator

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Tried, tested and approved by our friends at the Good Housekeeping Institute, this massage wand is technically a solo sex toy. But trust us: apply gentle pressure to your hotspots while enjoying sex with your other half and you are guaranteed to scream [insert partner's name] all night long. To double your orgasmic fun, switch it up and use the head for an orgasmic clitoral massage or the tapered end to enter G-spot heaven.

What's included: Silicone wand massager and USB charging cable.

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BEST HANDS FREE LOVE EGG FOR COUPLES

Bondara Twist N Shout Rotating Love Egg

Twist N Shout Rotating Love Egg
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BEST HANDS FREE LOVE EGG FOR COUPLES

Bondara Twist N Shout Rotating Love Egg

If you enjoy the feeling of tingly insertion during sex, this vibrating love egg will be just the ticket. Featuring seven 'shake' patterns that promise to deliver orgasms aplenty, simply hand the remote control to your other half to get the party started. To reap the full rewards, don't forget the lube.

What's included: Rechargeable silicone love egg and remote control.

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BEST ANAL PROBE SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Bondara Blue Silicone Anal Probe

Blue Silicone Anal Probe
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BEST ANAL PROBE SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Bondara Blue Silicone Anal Probe

Now 37% Off

If you're new to anal sex, investing in an anal probe is a great place to start. With seven beads that promise to massage your hot spots on the way in (and out) prepare for serious pleasure all round. But remember: the rectum is not self-lubricating and dry friction will smart a bit, so don't forget to apply plenty of lube.

What's included: Silicone anal probe with seven beads.

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BEST TECH-SAVVY SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo

Pulse Duo
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BEST TECH-SAVVY SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo

Billed as the world's first 'guybrator' this great device from Hot Octopuss is technically a male vibrator, but it's not just for men. 'PulsePlate' technology inside the shaft presses pleasingly against the underside of the penis, while a well-placed second motor on the outside has clitoral stimulation in mind, so both parties can enjoy the fun. This is a great sex toy if penetration is painful, an erection cannot be relied upon, or the idea of a seriously futuristic sex toy designed specifically for hands-free mind-blowing orgasms turns you on.

What's included: Silicone Pulse Duo vibrator, remote-control button and USB charging cable.

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BEST THREE WAY SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Bondara Triathlon 3-Way Rabbit Vibrator

Triathlon 3-Way Rabbit Vibrator
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BEST THREE WAY SEX TOY FOR COUPLES

Bondara Triathlon 3-Way Rabbit Vibrator

Can't decide what you're in the mood for tonight? With motorised clit-stroking rabbit ears, a G-spot stimulator and a buzzing beaded anal probe to contend with, this sex toy from Bondara will help you score a hat-trick! So, prepare to explore all of your orifices and enjoy Olympic-sized orgasms all round.

What's included: Body-safe silicone triple rabbit and USB charging cable.

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