Your October 2022 Sex Horoscope Is Here, And It’s Time To Finally Have That Talk You’ve Been Avoiding
Prepare for some big decisions, hard conversations, and makeup sex.
It’s Libra season, and if there’s one thing Libras love, it's balance. I mean, one of their symbols is literally a scale! And with a hectic astrological month ahead (the planets are pretty much in a flash mob RN), it is more important than ever to feel grounded in your love life.
When the full moon enters Aries on the 9th, all of the signs will be examining their relationships and the balance of power within them. If you’re someone who goes above and beyond for your partner all the time—making sure their coffee is prepped, their clothes are cleaned, all that good stuff—and your S.O. is barely taking out the trash... this might be a good time to have a conversation. Chore chart, anyone?
“This time is about making sure you have equality in your relationships,” says Donna Page, a professional astrologer with a graduate degree in counseling psychology. Yep, that includes your friendships, too!
Thankfully, Mercury retrograde is ending on October 2nd, which should help you navigate any tough convos by communicating clearly and without any astrological interference, says Page. Then, later this month, the sun will move into Scorpio on the 23rd, marking the official start of the passionate Scorpio season. On the 25th, there will be a new moon and a solar eclipse in Scorpio. Oh, and Venus is moving into Scorpio. Translation: The second half of this month is going to be A LOT.
But what does all this mean for you exactly? Ahead, Page shares her monthly sex horoscope predictions for each zodiac sign:
ARIES (MARCH 21–APRIL 19)
Single: With the full moon in your sign on the 9th, you may find yourself feeling extra analytical this month, Aries. Lean into that feeling, because it is extra important for you to examine the balance of energy in your relationships this Libra season. Do you feel like your support and attention are being reciprocated by your friends or potential partners? Don’t be afraid to break out the journal and dig into this one.
In a relationship: You may find yourself doing a bit of recalibrating this month, but there's nothing wrong with that. Every good relationship has its ups and downs, and this month may have some downs in the form of a few fights. The important thing, though, is to spend some quality time with your S.O. after you resolve the issue at hand. Let your inner children loose at Dave and Buster's, or try trivia night at your local bar. Spending time together will remind you both of the importance of your bond. And plus, you're a fire sign, so you know any makeup sex is going to be 🔥🔥🔥.
TAURUS (APRIL 20–MAY 20)
Single: Venus is bringing your daily routine into focus this month, so keep your eyes peeled as you go about your day-to-day. Is there someone interesting in line ahead of you at your favorite taco Tuesday spot? Or maybe there’s a cutie in your CrossFit class you’ve never noticed before? If someone does pique your interest, don’t be afraid to say hi, Taurus. You never know where it could lead.
In a relationship: On the 9th, the full moon in Aries is bringing all of the passion and fire, so make sure to carve out some time with your honey. Book that cute Airbnb in the woods, or take the drive down to the ocean. It’s important to spend some extra QT because when the sun moves into Scorpio on the 23rd, it lands right in your house of partnerships, causing you to take a look at whether or not this is the relationship for you. If you get a head start on figuring things out, it’ll make the second half of the month all that easier!
GEMINI (MAY 21–JUNE 20)
Single: You know the saying that there are plenty of fish in the sea? Well, that is truer than ever for you this month, Gemini. With Scorpio season highlighting your house of friendships, relationships, and love affairs, you may be finding yourself in demand—both on Hinge and IRL. Get clear on who you want your next partner to be quickly, because you’ll have lots of opportunities for dating this month!
In a relationship: The full moon in Aries will highlight your friendships and relationships, and you’ll find yourself weighing all the different connections in your life. Do you feel you can dedicate yourself to your relationship and still carve out time for your pals? Letting your friends slip away won’t serve you or your relationship, so make sure to have some solo time with your buds on the calendar this month. Besides, absence makes the heart grow fonder, so don’t be surprised if your sweetheart is ready to spice things up in the bedroom when you get home!
CANCER (JUNE 21–JULY 22)
Single: This month is all about enjoying life, Cancer. You’ll likely be spending the first part of October analyzing your work-life balance, and that will lead to plenty of opportunities for you to get out there and play! Step out on the town in your latest ‘fit, and be sure to take some cute pics because you’ll be feeling yourself! With this new confidence may come a connection, so keep your eyes peeled for a new cutie in your orbit.
In a relationship: If you and your boo have been doing a little too much Netflix and chilling, it’s time to shake things up. While it’s great to stay home on the couch and cuddle in your own little world, it is equally as important to go out and soak up all the world has to offer. Book a reservation at a new spot in town, or go dancing. It’ll be just the boost you and your S.O. need to take things to the next level.
LEO (JULY 23–AUGUST 22)
Single: Sorry to tell you this, Leo, but you can’t meet "The One" if you keep hanging out with the same five people. It’s time to get outside of your bubble, dust off your Tinder profile, and line up some dates this month! Before you do, though, take a look at your surroundings. Venus is in Scorpio at the end of the month, which will have you examining your home space and perhaps thinking of a refresh. It couldn’t come at a better time because you may have a special someone(s) checking out your room soon, if you know what I mean...
In a relationship: You’re bursting with ideas and opinions this month, Leo, and who better to share them with than your S.O.? Your passion is sexy, and your boo definitely wants to hear all about your new ideas and realizations, so feel free to spill! Your mood is electric and will have whoever is around you buzzing, too. Consider it a little fuel to your relationship fire.
VIRGO (AUGUST 23–SEPTEMBER 22)
Single: There are certain times in the life of each sign that are particularly good for meeting a new person, and this month’s full moon is your time, Virgo. The full moon is literally opening up your house of intimacy and vulnerability, so if you’ve been wanting to grill a new love interest on any of their life details, now is the time. (But, you know, make sure they're open to that kind of convo.) It’s also a great time to try out a blind date or start something with someone who was previously unavailable.
In a relationship: This is a big month for you and your boo, Virgo, so make sure to take the time you both need to ground down and connect. The full moon in Aries on the 9th is lighting up your house of intimacy, and vulnerability is in the air. It’s time for a deep chat over coffee (or maybe some wine!) with your S.O. You may find you learn more about your partner this month than you have in the last six.
LIBRA (SEPTEMBER 23–OCTOBER 22)
Single: There are many people coming into your orbit right now, Libra, and you're busy weighing all of their pros and cons. (Classic you.) While it can't hurt to be judicial and analytical, the universe is here to remind you not to be too picky. Everyone is multifaceted, and that means no one is perfect, including you!
In a relationship: The full moon in Aries brings some serious healing energy your way, Libra, which is great as you enter this new year of life. Spend quality time with your boo, and lay everything out on the table. You’ll leave this month stronger and more bonded than ever if you take the leap and share how you’re truly feeling!
SCORPIO (OCTOBER 23–NOVEMBER 21)
Single: If you’ve been feeling a little ~moody~ about your birthday, Scorpio, don’t beat yourself up. It’s normal to get in your feelings before the start of a new year, and let’s face it—things don’t always turn out exactly how you want them to. That said, spend some time this month on the most important relationship of all: the one with yourself. The full moon in Aries on the 9th is the perfect opp for introspection, and you can definitely use a little solo time before you enter your birthday season! If you have been looking for a special someone, though, keep your eyes open. The universe says they're right in front of you, but you just haven't considered them yet.
In a relationship: There is plenty of opportunity for deep healing this month if you take it, Scorpio. And let’s be real: When has a Scorpio ever shied away from getting deep? If you’ve been looking to spend some extra time bonding with your sweetheart, try planning a date night timed to the powerful Aries full moon on the 9th. With Venus and the sun entering your sign on the 23rd, there will be really sweet and serene energy that you can look forward to!
SAGITTARIUS (NOVEMBER 22–DECEMBER 21)
Single: October is a great time to socialize and hit up all of those fun events you’ve been meaning to squeeze into your social cal. No matter the invite, you are down this month, Sag, and you’ll be rewarded with new and interesting people. (Including, perhaps, a special someone who could change up your relationship status. Anything's possible!)
In a relationship: With the Libra energy in the air, be sure to strike a balance between your lover and your friends this month. While it is so important to dedicate time and work to your relationship, make sure your girls aren’t hanging by the wayside. Make time for a GNO and a date night this month. You’ll be feeling recalibrated and ready to take on your season come November.
CAPRICORN (DECEMBER 22–JANUARY 19)
Single: Capricorn, it’s really easy to sit in the comfort of your own bedroom and lament that all the good ones are taken. But unless your Seamless driver turns out to be "The One," you’re probably not going to make any groundbreaking connections while home alone. Solo time is good—necessary, even—from time to time, but make sure you are still seeing your friends and getting out in the world. The connections are just waiting for you!
In a relationship: This is a big month for the ‘shipped Capricorns out there, because the planet of love (Venus) is in your house of friendship. And the friendship you have with your S.O. is a crucial one! Take some time to really get to know each other better this month, whether it’s through a good game of Never Have I Ever or a romantic weekend getaway. One-on-one time will do the two of you good!
AQUARIUS (JANUARY 20–FEBRUARY 18)
Single: You are an adventurous person by heart, Aquarius, so what better way to meet someone new than while trying something new? Get outside and definitely out of your comfort zone this month. The breath of fresh air will have you feeling renewed and in the perfect spirits to meet-cute at your new glass blowing class, or wherever the wind takes you.
In a relationship: The full moon on the 9th will put a real emphasis on your relationship and the communication within it. If you've been feeling neglected or like your partner isn't listening, speak up, Aquarius! With Mercury finally direct on the 2nd, now is the time for clear communication. Take advantage of this energy and advocate for yourself in your relationship. You’re worth it.
PISCES (FEBRUARY 19–MARCH 20)
Single: Relationships require give and take, Pisces, so before you can really master one, get clear on what you and your future boo are each bringing to the table. It’s important to identify who and what you are looking for in a relationship—otherwise, you won't recognize it when it’s right in front of you. If you don't know where to start, try to do a deep dive into your past relationships. What went well? What didn’t? Make a mental or literal list to use as a guide!
In a relationship: This month is all about communication and finances, so odds are, you and your partner will end up duking it out over the bills. Keep a clear head, though. Just because the two of you may prioritize different areas of spending doesn’t mean you can’t learn from each other. Operating in financial harmony is important for any couple!
Jacqueline Tempera is an award-winning writer and reporter living in New Jersey with her many pets. She is a business owner and a double Scorpio who loves all things astrology and reality television. She is passionate about body diversity and representation, mental health, and the fight to end sexual assault and harassment. To learn more about Jackie, follow her on Instagram @jacktemp or visit her website at jackietempera.com.
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