26 Best Strap-Ons To Take Your Sex Life To Another Level, According To Experts And Online Reviews

This best-selling set comes with small, medium, and large dildos, so you and your partner can work your way up as you go. Each dildo has a suction base to help it lock into place in the vegan leather harness. Worth noting: The harness pad has a soft, felt-lined back so you won’t chafe when things get going.

Rave review: "Had so much fun with these toys! Blue is great for beginners, and then the purple is awesome to hit the prostate and G-spot."

Graduated from beginner kits? Try this set, which features a 5-inch and 6.5-inch dildo and two corresponding O-rings to lock them in place. "It comes with two toys so the receiver can experience a smaller toy, then work their way up to something larger," says Deysach. "It also comes with a very adjustable, soft, and comfortable harness."

Rave review: "As a first timer, I can't think of anything better. It was perfect from the small dildo to the larger one. It allows you to have smooth sex and rough sex. Very easy to use, easy to put together, and easy to clean."

This sizeable strap-on has a lifelike look and feel for a second-skin ride you’ll both enjoy. The seven-inch vibrating dildo delivers 10 speeds, pulses, and patterns for a huge range of options. You’ll get up to two hours of fun from one charge.

Rave review: "When I considered buying it, I wasn't sure if the vibration would be strong enough, but it definitely is. It is quiet and I love the different speeds and patterns."

Reviewers call this one an "awesome deal," and for $26, it's hard to disagree. Give this a go if you're feeling a little non-committal about your strap-on choice at the moment.

Rave review: "The dildo itself is really soft, and the texture is nice. Everything is good quality, easy to clean, and doesn't smell. It's easy to put on and was adjustable to my figure and body type."

At six inches long and 1.75 inches thick, the dildo in this kit is for girth lovers and G-spot fans alike. Plus, the fabric harness is chafe-resistant and adjustable up to 67 inches!

Rave review: "The harness is very well-built and adjustable, and the dildo itself is super comfortable and great shape. It's very fun to use with the remote control."

With a six-inch-long thick dildo, the Pegasus G-spot and P-spot harness set is similar to the Pegasus curved realistic harness. The big difference is that this dildo features a more curved tip, which allows the wearer to more directly pleasure the receiver's G-spot or prostate.

Rave review: "I love this strap-on. The feel of the dildo is so soft yet firm, and having the vibration added a whole additional level to the experience."

"This is fully adjustable for the perfect fit, and the dildo has seven curved inches that are optimal for providing G-spot pleasure," says Ashley Cobb, sex educator and sexpert for Lovehoney. The kit also comes with three interchangeable O rings that allow you to switch out the dildo for a smaller or larger appendage, based on your partner’s preferences.

Rave review: "I’ve had several adventures with this strap-on. The interchangeable rings make it very versatile, and my collection of dildos all fit. The dildo that comes with it is superb and hits the spot (or so I'm told)."

Trust, those little bunny ears can provide some big-time pleasure. They're designed to massage the receiver's nerve-dense clitoris, says Sparks. Oh, and the dildo vibrates, too. Buzzy G-spot stimulation plus clitoral love? A recipe for a blended orgasm!

Rave review: "The silicone is so soft, and the sleek, non-realistic design was a real draw for me. The harness is comfortable and firm enough to hold the strap where it needs to be, even during vigorous activity. This is the first toy I've found where I haven't ended up bored by the highest vibration setting after two weeks."

Hunting for a strap-on that’s butt-friendly? This one is it. "This strap-on is perfect for beginners," says Cobb. The harness is easy to put on, and the dildo has a realistic look and feel. At just five inches, it’s the perfect size for pegging, she adds.

Rave review: "It's comfy and just the right size for a first timer. Easy to clean, and doesn't take up much room at all when storing away. Highly recommended this for anyone wanting to get spicy!"

This dual harness is a little different from others. It features a vibrating plug for vaginal or anal play that’s built into the crotch of the harness, so you can easily slip it inside and keep it in place as things heat up. Meanwhile, your partner enjoys 6.5 inches of a veined dildo for intense action. Choose from three vibration speeds powered by a handy remote.

Rave review: "My partner and I truly enjoyed this toy! The vibrations are strong and hit just the right spots. The harness does seem to come loose, especially if you like to hit hard and be rough, but that can easily be remedied by a couple of knots here and there!"

"Most who buy this kit are couples who are pegging for the first time," says Deysach. And for good reason: The dildo is made of medical-grade silicone, and it’s no bigger than your pointer finger. Plus, "the harness is soft and fits a pretty wide range of waist sizes," Deysach adds.

Rave review: "The harness was a little confusing, but other than that, it's great!"

Strap-on harnesses tend to have a pretty…intense look. But this one comes in the form of a crotchless lacy panty set that’s all kinds of sexy. It features a five-inch curved silicone dildo to target all the spots. There’s also a reinforced O-ring that can accommodate other dildo sizes.

Rave review: "Finally found a pegging panty set that actually sits where it should. The dildo is the perfect size for my husband, we really enjoy this product... would recommend this product to anyone."

The lovechild of a G-spot vibrator and a strap-on, this Lovehoney creation is a vibrating dildo. (Technology!) "This vibrating dildo can stimulate nerves hidden way deep underneath the skin, releasing far more endorphins than other forms of touching, making it great for orgasm," says Cobb.

Rave review: "This is comfortable to wear, can get in all positions, and the vibration is great. Don’t give up after your first go, keep trying. When you get it right, you won’t look back!"

A double-sided dildo, the Fun Factory ShareVibe is designed for those who enjoy a full feeling and G-spot stimulation.

How it works: The wearer inserts the smaller arm into their vagina, then uses their pelvic floor muscles to hold it inside while thrusting in and out of their partner with the longer, more phallic end.

While this product is marketed as a harness-free strap-on, holding onto the Fun Factory ShareVibe can be tiring AF on your pelvic floor muscles, "so you may opt to use it with a harness for more stability," says Taylor Sparks, founder of Organic Loven, the largest BIPOC-owned online intimacy shop.

Rave review: "This has been the best strap on ever for me and my husband. The vibration is perfect for both of us! The feel and the anatomical correctness of the toy is perfect."

Want it so that both you and your partner get in on the action? This strap-on is double-ended, so you both can enjoy penetrative sex at the same time. It features bendable rabbit ears that can tease you both, too. Flip through eight vibration patterns and 12 speeds to find the feel that’s right for both of you.

Rave review: "Had a great time on its first spin. Fun for both of us! The texture, material, and size are all good."

You and your partner can get equally into the action with this double-sided strap-on. It features two curved and rippled seven-inch shafts that meet in the middle for intimate action. An adjustable leg strap and harness allow you to strap the toy on before you start thrusting away. Both dildos are curved for P- and G-spot action.

Rave review: "This double-ended strap on is so much fun! The dildos are just big enough to feel good to my partner, but not too big to be uncomfortable. They're somewhat bendy as well, so they really adapt to the shape of my body and his, too!"

This vibrating double-ended strap-on has all kinds of features to please you and your partner. You place the shorter dildo inside of you and enjoy the feel as you thrust away in your partner. A handy remote allows you to flip through three speeds and seven patterns for up to an hour on one charge. The vegan leather harness is easily adjustable for a just-right fit.

Rave review: "It’s a great toy for couples who want to experience simultaneous pleasure, and it’s a decent size to not be overly intimidating for those who are new to anal play."

When it comes to finding the right dildo, some people might want a realistic, penis-like shape; others might not. If you're torn, the Gala is a great in-between option, says Finn.

"This has a realistic look to it in shape, in that it’s got veins and a pronounced head, but it’s also confetti, so it’s kind of fun if you want the realistic texture but not necessarily for it to look like a real dick," they add. If an insertable length of 6.5 inches sounds like too much, you can also opt for the 5.5-inch Gala Mini.

Rave review: "I have tried several kinds and they are too big or too small or too stiff or too wobbly. This feels perfect size and most real to me, and it bends just enough. I had almost given up on penetration toys, but this one is perfect! Super happy!"