18 Best Vibrating Panties And Wearable Vibrators For Hands-Free Fun And Pleasure, Per Sex Therapists

If you want to add an extra layer of spice to date night without picking out a bulky set of panties, these are the perfect solution, says Hakes. Not only is this pair super sexy, with its black lace and side ties, but it has 20 different intensity combination settings that will leave you squirming in your seat.

Rave Review: "I've already had to take the remote from him..lol. We are very pleased."

Cupping devices like the Lock-n-Play hit multiple erogenous areas rather than just focusing on the clit or G-spot, says Kano. If you're looking for playtime that incorporates vibrating pressure on your vulva and lips, as well as the usual spots this is a great option. Plus, you can pop it on with any panty you desire.

Rave Review: "I was surprised by how much power comes out of this itty bitty vibe! It fit comfortably against my body, but has to be worn with a thinner style panty (like a thong) in order for the magnetic clasp to function, as it isn't very wide. The remote works from a decent distance as well."

Not only are these lacy, tie-on-the-side panties sexy AF, but they have a secret pocket for your vibrator. This little purple vibe is small, but mighty. It has eight speeds and 12 pulsing patterns, so the options for you and/or your partner(s) are endless. Kano likes this option because the pocket makes sure the vibrator stays in place, easing any concern that it may—you know—slip to the bar floor.

Rave Review: "I had a lot of fun with this product. The remote works well and there are a variety of pulsating settings to choose from."

Nobody does remote-control vibrators better than We-Vibe, and the Moxie is no exception. A favorite of Hakes, this vibrator is one-size-fits-all and designed to fit into any of your panties.

It is legitimately whisper quiet, in case you had plans to take this out to a fancy restaurant. It also comes with a little magnet that will keep it in place. And thanks to the advanced We-Connect mobile app, your partner can control the vibe from literally anywhere—yes, even across the globe.

Rave Review: "Honestly some of the best money I’ve ever spent and I have no regrets. I used the toy alone and it is strong and gets the job done. With my partner, the app control is amazing and fun."

This piece is one of the more unique vibrating panties out there for its fun butterfly design. The harness will keep it in place, and stimulate your whole vagina, says Kano.

These barely-there panties aren't wireless, though, so they're ideal for when you're having a self-care night or your partner wants to maximize pleasure during foreplay.

Rave Review: "Although it can take a while to get into the 'right' place, the straps and butterfly are very flexible and provide for a really nice 'hands-free' experience!"

When you're trying new things, like vibrating panties, comfort is key, says Kano. With these cute, low-rise panties, you'll feel like you're wearing one of your old favorites. You can lean into your sensuality as you show off your hips. The included vibrator boasts 10 stimulation modes and multiple speeds and patterns for all sorts of fun. The underwear are one-size-fits-all—but reviewers say they run a bit small, so if you are a big booty babe, you might want to consider other options on the list.

Rave Review: "Fun product—remote works well and the product is so far good quality."

Looking to dress up a bit for playtime? Look no further. This garter thong may look skimpy, but it secretly hides a bullet vibe containing six speeds and 10 patterns. Reviewers did note that the vibrator isn't as intense as other options, making it a good pick for beginners exploring foreplay, says Kano.

Rave Review: "Really happy with this item—the underwear is very cute. The vibrator has lots of settings."

Although not a vibrating panty per sé, this will turn anything in your intimates drawer into the ultimate wearable toy. This small-but-mighty, app-controlled vibrator is ergonomically-curved to fit you just how you like it, and then you can simply throw on your panties over it.

Kano recommends this option for someone who is looking for increased sensation on the clit. You can choose between 11 powerful vibrating modes.

Rave Review: "Beautifully made and easy to clean."

Most vibrating panties come with a remote control or an app for you or your partner to take the reign. But this sexy option uses a discreet ring as the controller. Hakes recommends these for a fun, fashionable solution to having to carry around a remote for public play.

Rave Review: There are no reviews on this product yet, but it's expert-recommended for it's innovative control design.

Finally, a pair of vibrating panties that aren't black, red, or pink. The itty-bitty vibrator that comes with them is perfect for long distance relationships. You can control the toy manually or have your partner do so via the app, in which you can even share photos or log your O and send a notification to them, which adds another fun element of play.

Rave Review: "It's rough doing quarantine away from my partner, but this really helps bridge the gap–big fan of the app interface. It's easy to use even when you're distracted."

Hakes is a big fan of the We-Vibe Sync vibrator, which is another option that's not a panty—but it's very easy to slip into a pair. This toy is perfect for those who want to enjoy both clitoral and G-spot stimulation. It's designed with 10 intensity levels and a silicone shell, which makes it easy to clean and friendly to the skin.

Rave Review: "I give it 11 stars. It always satisfies me and I can use it by myself discreetly or with whoever I choose to."

Reminder: The vagina has many sensitive areas, not just the clit or G-spot, says Kano. This floral, egg-shaped vibrator and skimpy vibrating panty cups your vagina, providing sensation to all of your pleasure zones. It's discreet, quiet, and has a silky soft touch against your skin.

Rave Review: "This is something fun to do with your partner in public. It feels naughty which is great foreplay for later."

This sexy combo is just what you need to have a rollicking good time. The panties feature silk bows, which allow you to adjust the placement of the vibrator to your liking, says Kano. Your partner can stand up to 40 feet away from you and have all the fun being in control.

Rave Review: This product doesn't have rave reviews yet, but the panty is an editor-approved pick for its adjustable fit.

With this, you can wear underwear of your own or choose to skip them entirely. Simply insert the longer arm inside you while the shorter one rests on your clitoris. It'll stay in place and its adjustability makes it so comfortable to wear and enjoy with your partner.

Rave Review: "I watched my wife use this and I was impressed with the sounds I was hearing and the looks I was getting."

If you're looking to turn things up in your long distance relationship or just from the other side of the couch, try this item from Lovense.

This vibrator has one of the longest remote-controlled ranges in the biz, says Hakes. So it's a huge perk for long distance lovers. It's quiet, she says, and the app makes it user-friendly. Its design makes it perfect for wearing with panties.

Rave Review: "We thought it was great! We don’t see each other often so this was a perfect reminder! He loves to randomly turn it on while I'm at work or sitting at dinner with him across from me…We’ve enjoyed every minute of it!"

Hakes recommends this vibrator for playtime outside of the house. The vibration is strong, yet quiet, and will cup all of the right areas. It also charges quickly—in under 30 minutes—so you don't have to wait too long to get started.

Rave Review: "It charges quickly and has nice vibrations. The remote works well, and it is easy to clean!"

This vibrator slips right into your panties, and gives you all the sexy fingering action you could ever want, making it perfect for solo play. This vibrator is shaped like a penis, for penetration, and designed to wiggle like a finger.

Rave Review: "This one pleases and teases and is an absolute must have...GET IT! It is designed for the pleasure-seeker and made for the thrill-seeker."

Designed with a vibrating pearl that moves vertically up and down, this butterfly vibrator is designed to lay flat against your panty, so no one (except who you want to know) will see you have it on. It's waterproof, so throw it on under a swimsuit when you want to have an extra fun pool date.

Rave Review: "My fiancé and I went on vacation with this toy and had so much fun. We used the app so we could be discreet with the use of it versus the remote. The intensity is nice—not too much, not too little. Definitely gets things going."