The 19 Best Anal Lubes, According To Sex Therapists And Online Reviews

If you’re planning to get rowdy with a glass or stainless steel anal toy, there’s no better bedmate than this lubricant from Cake. Formulated specifically for butt play, this silicone-water hybrid formula is basically the lube version of waterproof mascara: long-lasting.

"It's a thicker lube. It's a little bit more viscous, so it lasts longer," says Oriowo. "Water-based lubricants may dry out after a little bit." So, this one is perfect for those time-intensive bedroom sessions.

Hybrid lubes are all the rage. You get the staying power of a silicone lube, with all the compatibility of a water-based formula. Thanks to its silky-smooth texture, BabeLube Silk glides on like a dream and will never disappoint. Feel free to use it with your favorite anal sex toys—it won’t cause any pesky damage to silicone toys as long as you clean it immediately after use.

"For anal toys, this is really long-lasting. I'd recommend using it thick," writes one reviewer. "For vaginal, just a bit is all that is needed."

The Butters is a creamy, rich, oil-based lube that is an absolute must-buy for anal play. Its thick and smooth texture takes your anal experiences from good to mind-blowing. Plus, it leaves skin feeling soft and moisturized and will never, ever stain your sheets.

If you’re a pleasure-seeker who prides themselves on decadence, this lube is the way to go. Just take it from this reviewer: "This product is amazing! It actually makes sex a lot more pleasurable for myself and my partner. Not greasy, sticky, or oily. Blended beautifully!"

Coconut oil is a great choice for anal play, especially for anyone looking for a safe, all-natural lube option. Unlike baby oil or Vaseline, which will dry out and irritate the anal tissue, coconut oil will stay smooth. Just remember, this one isn't safe to use with latex condoms.

"Coconut oil has natural anti-bacterial properties in it, which for many people is attractive. But we have to keep in mind that there is good bacteria in the butt that we don't want to kill," explains Lisa Finn, sex educator and marketing director for Babeland.

While this might be a great (and convenient!) option for many people, others might be sensitive to this type of oil. If that sounds like you, Finn recommends using a coconut-based lube because they're formulated specifically for sexual activities, or opting for something with an oil-like consistency such as a silicone- or aloe-based lube.

This natural water-based lube from Lynk has racked up almost 10,000 five-star ratings on Amazon. In fact, one reviewer says, "I love this lube, is [sic] not sticky at all, it tastes great, and it really helps for anal sex, it’s great for hand jobs too. Most lubes are sticky to the point you have to get in the shower after, and... it doesn’t dry out fast like others I’ve tried."

This lube's ingredient list is clean, the price point rocks, and it has the perfect silky consistency for anal sex. Bonus: The pump-style bottle makes for way less mess.

Wicked Sensual Care's Jelle lube was specifically made for backdoor play, so you know it's guaranteed to be slick and thick. This long-lasting water-based lube feels like silicone, but won't disintegrate your silicone anal toys and latex condoms.

One reviewer calls this the "best lube out there" and notes that it has made anal play more comfortable for both them and their wife. "It lasts until we’re both done. Great product," they write.

If thick thighs save lives, thick lube saves anal canals. (Put it on a T-shirt!) With its silicone-based formula, this long-lasting pick is one of the thickest on the market, making it the best option for anyone looking for something pillow-y to soften the sensation of anal penetration.

"My partner and I love this. It feels smooth and natural but last [sic] longer so you don’t have to stop the action to reapply it," writes one reviewer.

System JO's anal lubricant is known for its silky texture and long staying power. Some lubes made for butt play can feel heavy and gross, but this water-based one, despite its perfect-for-anal viscosity, won't.

One reviewer adds, "This lube wasn't too thin, and stayed slippery for as long as we needed it to. Even though it is water-based, it has a thicker viscosity that lasts a duration."

This is a versatile lube that's completely organic and all-natural—you won’t find any harsh chemicals or sketchy parabens. It's water-based, contains aloe, and is compatible with condoms, but since it's not an anal-specific lube, you may need to reapply a bit.

"When the body is kept moisturized, as well as lubricated, it will help the body be able to stretch and allow those muscles to move," says Finn. "It's going to help hydrate beneath the skin to allow comfortable movement and prevent things like fissures and tearing."

This is an affordable drugstore brand that is tried and true for anal play. In fact, one Amazon reviewer calls it "the perfect key for unlocking the backdoor." They also say: "As someone who enjoys all things anal it’s a definite must have for me!! The slip is AMAZING and a little goes a long LONG way!!"

This lube stays in place—even in water—which means it’s a solid choice for anal play in the shower. The formula is very gentle and non-irritating to the skin. Astroglide is silicone-based, compatible with natural rubber latex condoms, and super slippery.

This lube is 100-percent organic, vegan, and infused with green tea extracts. Plus, as a water-based lube, it's compatible with all your toys.

Not to mention, it's versatile, according to one happy reviewer: "We've tried a ton of the organic lubricants. This is by far our favorite. It's not sticky, and it doesn't dry up quick like some of the other more 'creamy' organic lubes. Has worked great for both vaginal and anal, and is even good for oral as it's organic."

This silicone-based lube is high-grade and long-lasting, delivering the basics at top quality. Plus, it's also vegan, hypoallergenic, and free of parabens.

"OK, this lube is awesome!" said one reviewer. "Super smooth, long lasting, not too thick, never sticky. I’m just so impressed! Great product!"

Überlube is an industry favorite—and for good reason. It’s so gentle on skin, you can even use it to remove your makeup (yes, really!). This silicone-based lube is light to the touch and has a slick, slippery feel.

Not to mention, it delivers major bang for your buck, says one reviewer: "This lube is the tops for just about EVERY kind of sex - anal (not thick but super slick), oral (tasteless/odorless and doesn't wash away with spit), shower sex (water-resistant), & masturbation (incredibly long-lasting)."

Almond oil has a lovely, nutty scent and is completely body-safe—just be sure you’re purchasing 100-percent all-natural almond oil. But FYI, this natural lube isn't compatible with latex condoms.

"If you're not using toys and you're not using condoms, it's pretty much your world. Choose the thing that you like the best," says Oriowo. However, if you have a nut allergy, she recommends opting for coconut oil instead.

Thanks to its star ingredient, jojoba extract, this silicone-based lube makes you feel relaxed but not numb, ideal for a good—and safe—time!

"It has great longevity, great lubrication, doesn't need over application, and most importantly, does what few other anal lubes do: relax the muscles so that you can 'open up' much easier without pain," says one reviewer. "This is a godsend to be able to enjoy anal sex to the fullest."

Finn describes this lube as "slightly thinner than a hair gel, but still has that thick viscosity to it." If you're cool with the thick consistency for anal play, this is a great place to start. If this is your first time buying anal lube, this affordable option—only $6!—that you can feel confident trying.